David A. Bednar: The tender mercies of the Lord are real and they do not occur randomly or merely by coincidence. The Lord's tender mercies are the very personal and individualized blessings, strength, protection, assurances, guidance, loving-kindnesses, consolation, support, and spiritual gifts which we receive from and because of and though the Lord Jesus Christ.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Acceptance

This last weekend I was able to visit with my Grandma Koon and help clean her house. She'll be 90 this September 9(I was born on her 60th birthday). She can't see well, so she needed some help. Me, Annika, Mandy, my 2 aunts, Diana & Martia, my cousins Erik, Tiffany, Steve, and his fiance were all there cleaning. We had a really good time doing it and at some point during, I can't really recall exactly when, I was thinking about how accepting my grandma is. I've had a few relatives that have really made some bad choices in their lives and through it all, my grandma still accepted them into her home. Whether they lived with her for a period of time, or just stayed with her for a while, she allowed them in. I'm not sure I could have been that accepting as she did. She's an amazing woman and I hope I can follow her example to be more accepting to others. I feel so blessed to be able to share a birthday with such an amazing person!

From an interview with Elder Francisco J. ViƱas of the Seventy, currently serving as President of the Caribbean Area Presidency; by Sarah Cutler

“By love serve one another” (Galatians 5:13).


How do you build an eternal family? The first step is to learn from your parents. My parents were baptized in 1951, when I was four years old. We were among the first members of the Church in Uruguay.

From my parents I learned how to treat other people. They taught me to reach out to everyone, even to those who were not from our own country or culture. One time a Norwegian ship captain came to Uruguay. He was alone, without his family. My family invited him to stay in our home. Many people already lived in our little house, but we took in one more.

Seeing my parents take care of others taught me a simple principle of the gospel of Jesus Christ: be friendly to others, treat them well, and do not judge them. Be kind, and help people when they have a need.

I also saw how my parents served in the Church and how they helped the missionaries. Before I was called as a priesthood leader, I had already received great training in my home from my parents.

The sooner in your life you start living the gospel, the better your life will be. Someday you will be able to pass the same gospel message and heritage to your children and then to their children. You can start a new generation of an eternal family if you learn the basic principles of the gospel.

My parents’ example was a great heritage for me and my family. I hope it will continue to be for all the generations to come. My wife and I have a great relationship with our children. We have tried to help them understand what my parents taught me, that if you love others and help them, you are blessed. Our children have had many challenges, but all of them have been sealed in the temple. They are active in the Church, and we hope they will pass on this heritage to the next generation.

My grandchildren are the fourth generation of our family in the Church. We hope that we can share with them the same ability to accept others, to help them, and to lift them up. We are working to establish a family based on faith in Jesus Christ and a strong testimony of His gospel.

1 comment:

Darwin + Kiara said...

Amen! Grandma Koon is such an amazing example to so many people. I keep thinking lately that I need for her to become immortal because I know it's going to be extremely difficult for me when she leaves us. I wish we lived closer and got to spend more time with her.

I'm glad you guys all took the time to clean her house. I'm sure she appreciated it more than she expressed. Man! I love that woman! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Kirsten!